Wording
your wedding invitation
(Or go see specific examples.)
How you word your
wedding invitation depends on how formal your wedding is, who is hosting your
wedding/reception -- and your cultural heritage. The wording suggestions in
this article are based on American Anglo-Saxon traditions of the past 70 years
or so. However, none of the so-called rules are etched in stone. We have a
substantial collection of etiquette books dating back to the mid 1800’s --
as well as books about medievel life -- and many, many of the rules have changed.
Let’s just say we should all count our blessings that we live now!
Here's a list
of some general do’s and don’ts:
- No periods
(.) at the end of a line.
- Names are
spelled out in full: use proper given names (for example -- Anthony, not
Tony; Cynthia not Cindy).
- No abbreviations
other than Mr., Mrs., Dr., and Jr.
- First letter
of each line is not capitalized, unless it is a proper noun (for example
-- “Sunday, the fifth of October” is correct. OR “on Sunday,
the fifth of October” is correct).
- Dates and
times are written out (half after five o’clock, two thousand and three).
- The first
word of the year is capitalized.
- The “honour
of your presence is requested” is properly used for church weddings
only.